Rant! Rant! Rant! Through Gifs #1: Is It Wrong To Feel Defeated? Or Like The Underdog?

That pretty much sums up everything about who I am, my life and how i'm feeling right about now. It's not that I hate myself or who I am but, it's that I feel like nothing ever goes my way or even right for that matter, Which sucks! The funny thing is, I always hear the same thing from people. You know, "it gets better" and "everything will work out in the end". but, I feel like this when they say that:

It's almost like they are trying to make you feel better or rob you of your right to feel defeated or like an underdog by swooping in and ignoring the simple fact that, by feeling defeated, by being knocked down. It only makes you want to fight back, work harder, be better, and be stronger! You know what I mean?

I think that so many people are so busy trying to fix people and solve problems that they forget one simple fact:

Maybe, what people are seeing the smiling and happiness or the sadness and heartache really is the mask with the heart and soul, spirit and super awesomeness of a fighter with in. I mean it's simple...

Basically, while it's amazing we want to take the pain away, we really shouldn't because, we should be helping people survive, grow and be strong by supporting not trying to wipe the tears. Let them know they can do it, fight back against the grain and they have it in them to be strong.

Now... If the pain really is so much for someone, then they need more help than we as family and friends can provide, maybe, then they can find peace and strive towards an awesome future. Thanks for reading. Please leave comments and tell me what you think or feel? Again, Thanks!